Flipcharts from New Intermediaries breakfast party
Teddington
Wednesday 17 Nov 1999
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Imagine
belonging to a great and resourceful network……… what would it look and feel like?
Makes me laugh
Feels warm friendly challenging
Um….. Like this, It is, we are !
Honest open fun
Challenging
Look:- colourful plenty of contradictions
Like a long and eventful pilgrimage
A crazy web of friends
Full of ideas. New and combination of old
Pockets of learning that is then shared
An open ended conversation without a sense of closure
A place for check-ups and challenge
Supportive. Proud to belong. Ever expanding
Sharing ideas not protecting.
Exciting vibrant
Collegiate
Looking for the potential in each other
Support
Inclusive
Look. Organic. Amoebic
Sounds like Stravinsky
Smells like: Spring.
Real, meaningful, like a brilliant dinner party
Inclusive
People bouncing off each other
Safe, supportive, empowering
2. What benefits could you gain from belonging to a network?
- Confirmation of approach/ideas
- Comfort
- Know someone who knows someone on something…..
- Sense of purpose (imroving stuff along)
- Fruitful connections
- Excitement, interest, broadening, deepening
- Greater confidence
- Learning new tools
- Ability to create contacts more easily
- Feeling part of something exciting, new and fun
- A group mind bigger than the individual brain
- Client work passed on to veritable excellent others
- Challenge
- Stimulation adventure new possibilities!!
- New ideas perspectives
- Friends
- Pool of knowledge
- Broadening opportunities
- 1 page profile of each member
- Regular meeting access to others (Web link)
- Mutual support to develop the hidden talent/potential in us all
- Depth
- Motivation expand ideas new places to explore ideas
3. What do you have to offer to the other people in the network?
- Mentoring of top execs and entrepreneurs
- Helping others change, help realise our individual destiny
- Co-supervision/coaching other network members
- Relationship Management skills
- Own network
- View from large companies best practice
- Top tips on where to snowboard and surf!
- Enthusiasm …… ideas
- Openness and supports
- Lots…. Just ask
- Metaphors symbols stories language
- What it’s like on the receiving end!
- Challenge, support, ideas, connections, work!
- Exploration of theatre improvisation techniques in organisation. Danger Zone course?
- Advice and confidential brainstorming
- Jam sessions
- Fun, passion
- Irrationality challenge
- Support
- Love, support, psychic awareness accountancy management skills healing
4. Imagine the possibilities for 1-1, small group and large group activities, face to face and online…… what sort of future activities, meetings, events and contact would you like to happen in the network?
- Web link directory for contact for 1:1’s
- Sharing case studies
- Face to face is vital
- Problem solving on the net?
- Don’t force it, box it, go with the rolling wave
- 1/4 yearly meeting like this
- Yes!
- All of the above and whatever takes your fancy
- Edit/collate books/articles
- "Problem share" clinics for sharing issues getting ideas …… sort of Action Learning
- Face to face is vital
- Anything which opens the mind - learning
- Exchange of tools/techniques
- Dialogue to explore new ideas - leverage diversity
- Maybe need some themes to work around?
- Debates
- Collaborative design
- Co-coaching
- Structured events - sharing methodologies and ideologies and stances
- On net dialogue/ideas/problem solving
- Parties
- Workshops
- A dialogue on how to consult to the have-nots-(the social excluded)
- Support communicate collaborate
- Exchange of brief CVs; what excites/what doesn’t; etc
5. What are your less positive experiences of networks, the risks and the pitfalls and how might these be overcome?
Risks
- Time wasting. Lack of right kind of leadership
- Friendships formed create cliques to distract from purpose
- Lock-in to social network, dependency, closed minds
- It becomes a business getting service w/o good relationships
- Politics runs riot
- Fear of owning ‘mistakes’ (not looking good, expert, wise etc.)
- 9/10 of iceberg never revealed
- Purpose unclear
- Change agents who want to change other people
- Real issues hidden
- Not being able to make something/anything happen
- You become detached from "customers" - you live in consultancy world
- That it is forced into becoming "something" when it doesn’t need to be
- Culture controls too much process
How to overcome risks
- Be clear about shared outcomes and focus on these
- Diversity
- Take time developing relationships
- Focus on the purpose and develop transparency
- Peer -to-peer network
- Allow it to evolve
- Involvement of all interests
- Right structures to facilitate the purpose